What is more important to you – getting a reply from somebody, or having them follow you back?
Twitter is an open network. The reply mechanism works just as well whether I’m following you, you’re following me, or neither of us are following each other. It’s just a +1. The follow doesn’t make a lick of difference to the relationship.
Relevance and interest is rarely two-way. If it is, fantastic, but I follow people who I hope can educate me. I want to learn from them, and the content they provide, and pass that on to my network. If at any point I find myself asking, “Why am I following this person?” it’s time to part ways.
Being smart about your follow numbers can only improve your output. In the last two months, I’ve reduced the number of people I’m following by 50 per cent. Over the same period, the number of people following me has doubled. This has radically improved my ability to filter signal from noise and interact.
I was recently asked how long we should wait before we unfollow somebody who hasn’t followed us back. The answer to this is it doesn’t matter. If you’re being smart and only following people with whom you have a genuine interest, who cares if they follow you back or not? That isn’t the reason why you followed them… is it?
What you should really be asking is, “Why has this person never replied to me?” If you’ve sent somebody several question-based tweets, particularly if they’re about a subject to which they market themselves as an expert or guru (and you haven’t been an ass about it), and never received a single response, then you need to think hard about your relationship with that individual. Does it even exist?
Follow numbers are no excuse. If somebody is ignoring you because they follow 50,000 people, then that’s as good a reason as any why they need to trim it back.
If they’re ignoring you but only following a few dozen people, then they’re just ignorant.
Etiquette is as important online as it is in all social situations. Don’t support the rudeness of others by continuing to follow them if they won’t even give you the basic courtesy of a response.